New Year's Eve

Overcame objections, stood up to bullies, left non existent relationships behind, and secured a positive future. That looks like an amazing 2012 in my book!

Saturday afternoon

I make no apologies....I am a home body.I love to be at home watching TV and movies...enjoying my children to the fullest,or at least until they work my nerves lol! I am not a fan of crowds. I do enjoy church and dining out. I am hoping that one day I can travel more and get to some art galleries, botanical gardens, and plays. Other than that, I'm me and I don't much care who doesn't like it *puts specs back on*

They know who they are

“The man who backbites an absent friend, nay, who does not stand up for him when another blames him, the man who angles for bursts of laughter and for the repute of a wit, who can invent what he never saw, who cannot keep a secret - that man is black at heart: mark and avoid him.” ~Cicero~

Show Girl!

Moving back to Las Vegas was the best thing I could have ever done! My children and I are so happy and I can see a definite change in my personal constitution! Thank you God for always bringing a rainbow after a storm....

Have made some definite changes

OK, so you wonder why I haven't blogged in a while? Well, it's definitely not because I haven't had a ton of interesting things transpire lol! I have cancelled relationships, opened myself up to new challenges, turned down two jobs with relocation adventures, and to elaborate on that....they weren't a good fit for a mother of 4 children, 3 being under the age of 5! So I set boundries....a new thing for Treen : ) I happily filed my own taxes, received a really nice return, you know what? I'm in control, and making sure that Trina is always fulfilled and happy at the end of the day....something I usually don't do.

I'm enjoying spoiling my children and my new chihuahua puppy, and preparing to stay put in my rental for an additional 2 months until my new apartment comes through yay! I feel hopeful, enlightened, and so very happy! It's great putting me first! Now don't get me wrong, my babies (even my 15 year old lol) are my TOP priority; well my faith and trust +praise in GOD is essentially first, then the blessings he gave to me,my babies, and then I just bask in making myself smile! I love it! No one can break this solid foundation! I think I know what finally happened friends......I found "reciprocity"......and it ironically it's coming from "me."

Loyalty

It amazes me how some people take loyalty with a grain of salt. Your word is all you have in life. If you make a commitment to call, come by, or do something with someone, it is essential that you exercise courtesy and advise them if circumstances arise, or plans change.

I experience this continually with certain people in my life. They will say to me they are going to do something with me or for me, and fail to follow though. Now, don't get me wrong, I am not throwing a pity party. What I am in fact attempting to convey is how inconsiderate an over abundant amount of people in my life are! So, this tells me that I attract those types of people. That, or maybe I need to pick my friends like I pick my fruit.

The main thing to take from this is, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Hakuna matata...blah blah blah lol!

Unecessary drama

I find that one of the chief problems in my life is that I am too nice. Sounds narcissistic, but seriously, I fail to address issues as they arise, and as a result people run with their nonsense. I have what's called my "F it" button lol, once it's pushed, there's no turning back. My engines reeving and I prepared to unleash a can of cuss out on the unsuspecting party. I am not proud of this. Here is my advice to those that take proverbially kind hearted people for granted.....STOP IT!

Ambiguity

Hard to be positive about the upcoming year if the previous one was a loser lol! Looks bleak huh? Well always attempt to visualize yourself in the place you want to be in life, the body you want, or the financial status you desire. Really "feel" the imagery. Then and only then can you truly attain the wonders that are avalable to you. Its simply making your life manifest into the one that you desire. I know you can do it! Live, Love, Learn.....